Thursday, July 8, 2010

Law of Attraction vs. Go for No

We'd like to cover a small perceptual challenge we run into pretty much all time, especially from those who are fans of the "law of attraction" (as are we by the way!) and it is this...
"NO is so NEGATIVE. If I focus on the NO's I'll get them. I want to be positive."

So let's clear this up. You are NOT focusing on NO. You are not hoping, praying or wishing for a NO. The only thing you are doing differently is in the not avoiding it. You see, what's important in "law of attraction" is the last 6 letters... ACTION.

You already know that if you sit in your living wishing and attracting a Ferrari it isn't happening. It works about as well as going only for yes and avoiding no. Pretty soon you've got to stop all activity as chances are the no's are going to show up for you. Sorry. No's still happen (though much less) to the best of the best.

So, relax. You are not secretly trying to get a "no." You are merely acting and then allowing the result to occur... whether it is a yes or a no. Either way, you should be excited because you did the most important part... you took ACTION.


Honorée Corpron Corder said...

Definitely changing the way one feels about NO helps get and keep them in action. You're so right, it's action that makes all the difference.

RCBonay said...

Well said! It is so sad that many people think that they can just hope for better things when in reality if you want better things you have to get after those things. I understand, sometimes it's tough...I've been there! Go For No! has taken me from hoping for better things to actually taking action to ensure that those better things become real.

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